Traveling through China is eye opening for tourists. It's
even more interesting for the Chinese. Keep in mind that not so very
long ago China was still in the dark ages of isolationism. Although the
social transition into the modern world has changed millions and
millions of Chinese, most of the change has happened in the large
population centers like Beijing, Shanghai, Chengdu, Hong Kong and the
like.
Many Western fashion statements like mini skirts,
bikinis, facial makeup, & even body piercing can be seen in the large
cities and it is mostly tolerated by the locals. On the clothes issue...
(which seems to be mostly a gender bias) bare shoulders on women, short
tight shorts on women, heavy facial makeup (on men & women) generally
fall into the no no zone throughout most of China. Just a few years ago a
male (especially a Caucasian male) walking alone with a Chinese woman
was unheard of. Police then were "sure" that she was a prostitute and that he
was a "John". This and other forms of public displays of affection is still a "soft" taboo in the
cities and a big taboo in the rural areas. Even today, couples
holding hands are looked at with a certain distain in the rural areas.
Please keep in mind that you are traveling in a country
that may be very different than your home of record. Please remember that unlike a
socially homogeneous country like America, China is made up of over 60
ethnic minorities (still mostly separatists & proud to be), has about 6
major religions (some of which are very conservative and leave no room
for interpretation of social moirés) all of whom are being faced with an
ever increasing flood of foreign tourists bringing needed tourist
dollars but also some very "strange" customs & habits .
Certainly the older, more insular people found in the
smaller towns & villages have a harder time than metropolitan based
Chinese in justifying our "bizarre" habits... such as our dress, our
eating, our loud voices, our need for our needs to be met etc.
Loud, in your face, demanding behavior (look closely as you may not even
recognize it in your own behavior) is a no no. Traveling through China
doesn't mean behaving as if you're at church, instead behaving as if you are
visiting your respected great grandmother wouldn't be too far off base either.
There are any number of good books on proper traveling
etiquette to read. Many tour guide books like "Lonely Planet", Frommers
and many others have gems of wisdom throughout their sometimes many,
many pages. Take the time to learn as much as you can about the
religious, ethnic & cultural customs of the area & people that you plan
to visit. You will have a better relationship & interaction with the
people that you are visiting, you will get more out of your tour and you
will enjoy your experience much much more than you thought was possible.
~ to learn more ~
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1-800-497-4244 to talk with
Mark
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e-mail us.....rebecca@qigongchinatrip.com
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Ely, MN 55731 USA
phone: 800-497-4244
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